So now that the Powerball pandemonium is over, I can finally say what I’ve been thinking for so long. No your eyes have not mislead you; you read the title correctly, I would not want my spouse to win Powerball. Okay maybe it’s not that I don’t want him to win, but honestly I’d be a little fearful if he won. Why fearful you ask? Fearful because 1.5 billion dollars is a lot of money for an instant come-up. I am fearful he would not know how to act and similarly I don’t know how I would act. It is unfortunate, but reality is that money changes people; it changes people’s concept of what they need vs. what they want. This change in people’s concept, in my opinion, is plain and simple GREED! It is this change I refer to, that would make me fearful if my spouse won Powerball.
I know, I know, some of you may think I am absolutely crazy!! So often I hear people say what they would or would not do if they won or inherited such a substantial amount of money. Let’s be honest though, people have absolutely NO IDEA what they would do with 1.5 billion dollars! If you say you would pay off your family’s debt or buy a mansion for your 2-3 person household, then that is why I say people have NO IDEA what they would do with 1.5 billion dollars. According to ABC News, it is suggested for winners to first get a money management team and avoid making large purchases for at least six months to a year. So if you plan to pay off your family’s debt or put a gold toilet in that new mansion, for example, then you’ll be broke before you know it. My belief is that until you are in it, you can’t speak on it. Similarly, until you are in it, you don’t know how you will react to it. Will you become a pompous jerk or someone who spends frivolously? Will you lose the value of hard work and the simple life? Or maybe it’s the flip side, maybe you’ll be smart with your earnings, yet charitable. Maybe you understand that money is a benefit and not a guarantee of happiness. So positives can occur from the inheritance of Powerball winnings, but you can’t fault me for being fearful.
As I mentioned previously, I am not only fearful of how my spouse will react to such large earnings, I too would be fearful of my actions. As it is now I am no expert in money management, so I know if I won 1.5 billion dollars I wouldn’t have a clue of how to manage it. My husband chuckled when I told him I didn’t want him to win Powerball. I too chuckled when he said he would give me some of the Powerball winnings if he won. Ha! That’s marital property now!!! Lol! But seriously we love each other and I truly cannot imagine either one of us allowing money to distract our beliefs and family values. However, I am always thinking ahead and considering the worst case scenario so c’est la vie. I’m sure my thoughts may be rare, but I guess it doesn’t matter anyway since we didn’t win! This is not the first Powerball and it will not be the last; I’ll root for my hubby on the next one lol. ♥