I hear it all too often that men do not know what women want, as if women are these foreign creatures that have such unrealistic expectations. This couldn’t be farthest from the truth. I think men have such a hard time understanding women and our needs because they do not fathom what women have to endure. Women are not foreign creatures, but we are emotional beings that deal with so many things a man could not possibly understand. This is not to take away from what men go through, so fellas don’t get your boxers tied in knots! The purpose of this post is to solely address what women want. I by no means represent the entire female population, but I would say generally this is what women want. Fellas get ready to take notes…
What Women Really Want – Dating Do’s
Communication is key – yes women like to talk, so get over it. We like to share our day, our thoughts, our hopes, and so much more with our mate. Sometimes we like to vent to our mate; no feedback required. All you have to do is be still for a moment and listen. The more you listen daily, the shorter the conversations will be.
Show appreciation – In a world where women encounter inequalities, a little appreciation goes a long way. Without naming the duties women have on a daily basis, I will just say, women do it all!! So is it too much to ask to show your women a little appreciation now and then? It may seem cliché, but surprise her with flowers or whatever she likes, for no reason at all. Plan a date night, buy her a mani and pedi, or just do something for your women that says “thank you!”
Make her feel special – I don’t care how much confidence a woman has, there is something special about your mate saying “you look beautiful today.” On average a women may get hit on or gawked at by another man at least 5 times a day…at least!! Although they are told they look fine or maybe there are no words and a man just looks at her ass as she walks by, it is nice to hear sweet words from the one man she actually wants to hit on her and gawk at her.
Time is of the essence – A woman just wants to spend time with her man, and I’m talking quality time. The week’s hustle and bustle may not cause for the time she may desire, so spend adequate time on your off days. If in one month you can barely remember the last time you did something nice with her, you’re doing giving her what she wants; furthermore YOU should want to spend time with your woman. Hellooooo!!! Keep in mind, ‘time’ does not necessarily mean money, which means you do not have to spend a dime to spend time. Whether its movie night or game night, it’s all about the time.
So this is it! Fellas I’ve given you four basic things of what women really want and need. Of course there may be more, especially depending on the woman you’re dealing with, but even the basics are not complicated. So stop saying we are impossible to please! We may have our moments, I won’t lie, but with these basics in mind you should be okay. With that said, there will be a post in the near future about what women want/need during the time of the month. It’s just one basic thing – Don’t F*?k with her!!! Haha! Fellas by the time you read this post and the one soon to come, you will see just how simple women really are. ♥