Hello? Are you a man or woman who feels lonely during the holidays? Do you like inviting dates to holiday dinner? Do you bring women/men you casually date to holiday dinner? Do you bring a different date to holiday dinner every year? If you answered “Yes” to these questions, YOU ARE A HOLIDAY SERIAL DATER!! As a Holiday Serial Dater, you tend to bring whomever you are dating at the moment to holiday dinner. I thought this dating problem was appropriate since Thanksgiving is tomorrow and Christmas is approaching. So before you invite or bring your date to Thanksgiving dinner tomorrow, read this post in its entirety first. I hate to break this problem down to gender, but in my experience men tend to Holiday Serial Date so for the purposes of this post I will refer to men.
Family members of Holiday Serial Daters can predict a new person will attend dinner. “Here goes another one” is what family members say. The holiday date becomes entertainment because if your family is anything like mine, they are talking! They are either talking about you and your player or indecisive habits, or they are talking about your date who is too naive to recognize what’s going on. Most holiday serial daters have a habit of moving too quickly during the courtship stage. He met you on Friday, and by Monday he wants you to meet Mom. For the ladies this is a red flag! Beware of men who ask you to holiday dinner too soon because it says a lot about him, and his family will have a lot to say about you! If the family is used to seeing a different woman every holiday, they definitely won’t take you seriously. For the serial daters themselves, the family won’t take their love life seriously either. Every woman you bring for the holidays looks like another notch on your belt, so to speak. So when you think you’ve found the one, your family will think “yeah right!” It’s like the man who cried girlfriend, so you can’t be mad if your family does not have confidence in the longevity of your relationship. Only time will tell…or at least until next Thanksgiving and Christmas.
Holiday Serial Dating is selfish!! Meeting the family for the first time can be nerve-wrecking for anyone, so why do it to someone you know you’re not serious about? It is false advertisement to invite a woman you’re not serious about to holiday dinner. Heck even if she knows you’re not serious, why bring her? Since when do you have to bring a mate to holiday dinner?? Meeting the family is a privilege in dating, so if you invite a date to holiday dinner and you’re not interested in a relationship, you are entering into dangerous territory. Don’t do it unless you’re ready for something serious. Holiday Serial Daters tell the random date you invited to dinner tomorrow, “Sorry dinner is cancelled!” LoL!
H A P P Y T H A N K S G I V I N G ! ! !