Respect is key in any relationship, and without respect lies a dead relationship. So when I was at the car wash the other day and saw a man blatantly disrespect his woman, I knew where their relationship stood. The man didn’t call his woman an obscene name, he didn’t use violence towards her, and as a matter of fact, he didn’t even look in her direction. He did, however, break his damn neck to look at my ASS! Yes he did!! The sad part is I knew it was coming. As I walked in their direction, I knew he was no good from the way he gawked at me while his woman stood beside him. My thoughts were exactly right when my peripheral vision caught him looking at my backside. Although I was the woman being gawked at, I was far less than flattered. I was disgusted! In general I am disgusted by men who go overboard to look at a female’s ass. What is it men!?!? What is it about a woman’s ass that drives you crazy?? At one point I thought it was just the big ass, but nope it’s all ass. Men will even look at a flat behind, which may be by default, but either way he’s looking. What is it men!?!? Let’s make a deal. Help me understand why you’re hypnotized by the ass, and I’ll help you understand a few things about women.
* When is it inappropriate to look at another woman’s behind?
Do NOT, I repeat Do NOT look at another woman’s behind if your mate (date, girlfriend, wife) is in the same building, house, backyard, beach, parking lot, driveway, park, etc. You get my drift?? I don’t care if your mate is not paying attention to your or if she is in another room, don’t take the chance. For the period of time you are with your mate, just keep your eyes on her butt. If you’re asking “what’s the big deal,” then you REALLY don’t get women. When you look at another woman’s ass, you’re taking the attention off your mate, which is not a good thing. Your mate wants to feel wanted, appreciated, and desired. For the second it takes you to look at another woman, is a second you’ve lost with you mate. Furthermore, if you drastically peek at another woman, you may lose more than a second with your mate. You may lose her forever. If I were the girlfriend with the man at the car wash, who broke his neck to look at another woman, I’d probably leave his ass! It’s a “probably” because it depends on if I have a ride home or not, but once I’m home, I’m out!!! 🙂 I’m joking about it, but in all seriousness it’s a sign of disrespect toward your mate, so don’t do it!
*When is it appropriate to look at another woman’s behind?
It is only appropriate to look at another woman’s behind when your mate is not around at all! What do I mean by “at all?” I mean she is not in the same space or vicinity as you…at all! Of course there is a method to my madness, so listen up carefully. Although your mate is not around at all, you should still show respect by being as discreet as possible. Don’t do a complete 180 degree turn to look at a woman’s ass. Absolutely do not almost crash your car to look at a woman’s ass. Be discreet if you unequivocally, without a doubt, can’t help yourself from looking at a woman’s behind!! The only other appropriate time to look at another woman’s butt is when the butt is just too damn big. I’ll admit that I’ve pointed some butts out to my mate because honestly the butts were just fascinating! When your woman points the butt out to you, then it’s okay to look.
So fellas there you have it, the Do’s and Don’ts to looking at ass! Why is this even a subject!?!? Obviously some men don’t understand the level of disrespect the act involves. I’ve been the one gawked at, and I’ve also caught my date gawking at other women; it’s not a pleasant feeling either way. Imagine if women broke their necks to look at other men while in the presence of their mate. Men would be livid! Be tactful, discreet, and make your woman feel like her butt is the only butt you can’t resist! 😉