Last night, April 23, 2016, a movement occurred. While some call it feminism, I simply call it truth. Beyonce’s visual album “Lemonade” was what we can assume to be her truth, but it displayed the truth of many women. Beyonce is not the first woman to address women’s truth, however she is the first to do it in this way; an artistic form; a visualization of the many layers of women and some of the issues women go through. So let us give credit where credit is due; thank you Beyonce for this piece of art! Truth is the movement; it is a movement of truth. A women’s truth. Furthermore, a Black woman’s truth. It is not about a woman scorned or the angry Black woman!! (I had to put exclamation points behind that one) Again, it is not about a woman scorned or the angry Black woman!! It is about the emotions of a Black woman and the many layers of why such emotions exist. The emotions of pain, doubt, love and liberation, to name a few. It’s Black Girl Magic!!
“Lemonade” simply put is Beyonce telling the world Jay-Z cheated and the perfect love story of Jay and Bey is not so perfect after all. LOL on that!! Quite the contrary, Beyonce is sharing with the world, especially the young black girls and Black women, we all go through some of the same experiences when it comes to love. Love in the form of relationships and love in the form of self. One could argue that is one in the same. It’s a struggle, it is a fight, and you are not alone. THAT is simply put what “Lemonade” is about. Everyone will not understand the transparency and the message. Those who do not understand may not have reached such layers because it is all about layers. And let’s be clear this has nothing to do with whether or not you like Beyonce as an artist. It is about understanding the message, in a nutshell LOVE IS DEEP! But didn’t we already know this? Well as a woman you evolve over time and began to see things differently. As you grow you see and feel the woman’s plight, and then eventually realize rather than a plight it is a power like no other. Maaaaan!!! Let me just say it was so refreshing to see and hear someone say the things I’ve felt as of late.
I loved the transparency of “Lemonade,” so let me be transparent. As a newly married woman in my early 30’s the pressures have been overwhelming. I’ve been struggling some months now with understanding my place as a woman, a married woman, and prayerfully a mother in the future. I’ve questioned, am I doing enough for myself personally and professionally; am I doing enough to be a good wife; am I doing enough to prepare for motherhood; will I be a good mother; am I making him happy; most importantly am I making Him happy? As a Virgo I am already overly analytical, but these lingering feeling and thoughts feel different. I am in a moment of fear and doubt. It wasn’t something I could put into words, so I think this is why I was so touched by “Lemonade” because it was put into words for me. Damn. For those who do not understand, it is far from playing victim (people like to throw that around a lot), rather it is a process of understanding the pressures, or as I like to call, the root of evil. Male-bashing?? If the truth is infidelity, then how is it male-bashing? Rather there is a level of respect for a man who was unfaithful, eventually accountable, and in the end supports his woman who chooses to share her story. That shows a man whose love for his woman (WIFE) is greater than his pride. Ya’ll don’t hear me though (lol). Back to my initial point, the pressures can kill you if you let them. Women have to look to their faith of course, but it is also necessary for women to look to other women to get through. We are a powerful being. So if you get it, you know this movement of truth, “Lemonade,” was deeper than Beyonce the entertainer. It was an artist, a woman, expressing and sharing her truth and the truth of so many women; Intuition; Denial, Anger, Apathy, Emptiness, Accountability, Reformation, Forgiveness, Resurrection, and Redemption. “My torturer [LOVE] became my remedy” – love of self and love of companionship. #Lemonade ♥